re: 114, I should perhaps explain that when you've lost one 'kid' to illness, and the remaining 10 kids are beginning to display symptoms of aging and might not be with you for much longer, you don't want to be reminded of it. 關於114，可能我該解釋。當你一個小朋友已病死，而剩下十個小朋友衰老的徵狀越來越多的時候，你就不想碰到任何提起這個情況的東西。